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Dear Dr. Tamme,

My girlfriend is a complete slob! She looks hot and takes good care of herself but her apartment and car are disgusting . Should I just call it quits?

Cameron


Dear Cameron,

If you plan to live with her one day then you may have a problem. Some people see no need in keeping certain parts of their life neat and tidy. It is all they can do just keeping themselves on track. Our brains are all wired differently and what seems important to some may mean absolutely nothing to others .

You can call it "quits" or you can call the cleaning service. It may drive you absolutely nuts to live with a "slob" or you can have a little chat with yourself and decide what really matters to you.............her lack of neatness or HER. Tough one. Maybe not.

Good luck,
Dr. T



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