Dimensions Weekly Mens Lifestyle Magazine

Somehow, many guys are under the impression that women only want long, extended sessions of lovemaking. The prevailing conventional wisdom seems to suggest that women aren’t happy unless a long session of foreplay precedes any between the sheets action. This is heartily untrue; most women enjoy the occasional quickie and won’t turn up their nose at such an opportunity.

The thing to remember is that women don’t want every time to be quick – the key here is “occasional” quickie, not frequent, every-single-time quickie. DW explores the allure of the quickie for you in greater depth below.

Time Is Of The Essence
These days, most people are tremendously busy. Between work and family obligations, it can be tricky finding time to squeeze sex into the agenda. Although guys may be more vocal about their sexual needs, most women miss sex when they haven’t had it in a while. If it’s been too long since you and your girl have gotten it on, throw caution to the wind and suggest a quickie the next time you have a spare minute. More than likely, she will be quite receptive to the idea and will jump in with enthusiasm.

Putting It Out There
The critical thing to keep in mind when suggesting a quickie is to make it abundantly clear that it is, in fact, going to be a short-lived session. As long as she knows that it is going to be short when going into it, she’ll be fine with it. It’s when guys don’t lay that out on the outset that most women get aggravated and/or disappointed. When she knows that you’re not going to put a lot of time into things, she’ll be mentally prepared to enjoy herself more easily.

Don’t Neglect Her
The concept of “wham bam, thank you ma’am” is what turns most women off to quickies. Under that philosophy, as long as the man goes away happy, everything is kosher. This is a big no-no in the world of quickies, though, and if you want her to look forward to future quickies you need to meet her needs as well. Obviously, less time means less chances of pleasing her fully; still, make it clear that you’re at least trying to make her feel good, and she’ll be far happier to participate. Whatever you do, don’t just run away when it’s over.

Make It An Adventure
One of the best ways to get the most out of a quickie – and to ensure that she’s into it – is by squeezing one in during a “risky” time. If you’re visiting the in-laws for the weekend, for instance, try to have a quickie before everyone else wakes up. Stop by her office and try to have a quickie before she has to go back to work. With the added element of risk, a quickie takes on whole new levels of excitement and both of you will enjoy it that much more. Chances are, return engagements will be met with great enthusiasm, as well!

-DW | Dating & Sex






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